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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 29, 2016 at 11:47 pm
(October 29, 2016 at 10:34 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: I dated a nun a "few years back." Technically she was no longer a nun, but she still believed very deeply. I met her in a bar in San Diego and we got to chatting. When she got to the Big Reveal I laughed and asked her why she'd left the order.
"I couldn't handle the chastity thing."
Things went well that night for both of us. 
An atheist and an ex-nun walk into a bar...
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 30, 2016 at 1:37 am
Christian girls, especially the really uptight ones, are like dams waiting to burst. Nom, nom, splash, splash!
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 30, 2016 at 3:11 am
I had a roommate once with ah, benefits. I was definitely not alone in sharing those benefits. If there's one thing that would get me to consider a theist's point of view is that I never suffered any consequences for partaking. She definitely enjoyed her horizontal time. But she spoke often and with much conviction about "The Lord" and how important it was in her life. We just agreed to disagree on this point and it was a lovely relationship. I never pointed out the cognitive dissonance because I enjoyed the benefits and didn't want to lose them.
This was in Key West, Florida which exists in an alternate plane of reality. Not a typical experience.
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 30, 2016 at 4:22 am
(October 29, 2016 at 11:47 pm)Alex K Wrote: (October 29, 2016 at 10:34 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: I dated a nun a "few years back." Technically she was no longer a nun, but she still believed very deeply. I met her in a bar in San Diego and we got to chatting. When she got to the Big Reveal I laughed and asked her why she'd left the order.
"I couldn't handle the chastity thing."
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Things went well that night for both of us.
An atheist and an ex-nun walk into a bar...
Out walks the antichrist
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 31, 2016 at 2:53 pm
Should I post the "Fuck me in the ass because I love Jesus" video?
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 31, 2016 at 3:55 pm
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Never been a problem. Dated catholics mostly, in teens/early adulthood, owing to where I'm from..and then going from there to bavaria, lol. Couple ridiculous pagan types (those irritated me the most...but I don't know that it was their religion..so much as they were annoying which made their beliefs seem twice as annoying "ring that bell one more motherfucking time and I swear to christ I'll stab you with that knife!"). A muslim...meeting those parents didn't go well.
Married a super woo-ey atheist the first go round, after all the trial and error above. An evangelical the second go round. 10 years, this year, iirc, we've been married. She believes what she believes, I don;t believe what she believes...it starts and stops there.
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 31, 2016 at 6:19 pm
(October 29, 2016 at 8:25 pm)Cecelia Wrote: My husband was religious when we first started dating--then again, so was I. He was pretty uneasy about things like sex, and cursing. I remember we used to tease him by getting him to say dirty words that he didn't know were dirty like menage a trois. (I wasn't as religious as him). For a while he even thought it was a sin to LIVE TOGETHER. Like in the same house. But we did move in together, and I got him to loosen up a lot. He's an intelligent guy, but he was raised to believe that way.
Eventually both of us started having our doubts. Mine were much stronger than his--so I became an Atheist first. When I told him, he was pretty okay with it. I think that was the first step for him toward Atheism. When I became an atheist--because he knows me so intimately and knows that I'm a good person, he was able to accept that Atheism doesn't make you a bad person. He never tried to pressure me into believing in god again (we never went to church in the first place anyway). His views on god evolved, and he eventually believed... well in humanism with God attached. That's the best way to describe it. "God just wants you to treat people right."
Now he's an atheist just like me. One day he told me "I had been praying to God to ask him to show me a sign--any kind of sign. Then I realized--I've just been talking to myself." And we're much happier for it.
Fucking awesome post.
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 31, 2016 at 8:29 pm
(October 29, 2016 at 9:24 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: Boru
A little random I'll grant you but I just now read your signature for the first time. Kudos to you sir.
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RE: Your experiences dating religious people
October 31, 2016 at 8:33 pm
(October 29, 2016 at 10:34 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: I dated a nun a "few years back." Technically she was no longer a nun, but she still believed very deeply. I met her in a bar in San Diego and we got to chatting. When she got to the Big Reveal I laughed and asked her why she'd left the order.
"I couldn't handle the chastity thing."
Things went well that night for both of us.
Love a happy ending. *happy tears*
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