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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 2:46 pm
Again, back in the day, we didn't need Eharmony, which is a good thing since it didn't exist. We went out to bars and dances and parties where people were. I met my current husband at work. First husband at a dance and second one at a bar.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 2:50 pm
My daughter signed-up for eharmony, which is where she has met her last 3 boyfriends.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 2:52 pm
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An interesting side note. We have one group of people that say women are super stingy with sex outside of gigachads, and another that say women are way too promiscuous, all in on hook up culture..through websites, ofc. They can't both be right......
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 2:56 pm
Unless we are dealing with groups of Catholic women versus Amish women, or some other groups.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 3:02 pm
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Catholicism is a plot to manufacture extremely young and very fetishized women for barely repressed men. Change my mind.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 3:19 pm
(December 22, 2022 at 3:02 pm)The Grand Nudger Wrote: Catholicism is a plot to manufacture extremely young and very fetishized women for barely repressed men. Change my mind. 
Some would call those arranged marriages.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 3:20 pm
I view it a bit like a game, some people are on tutorial mode and some people are playing Doom, on the highest difficulty with no cheats only using the knuckleduster.
Its a dog eat dog World and after all the workplace cheating I've seen going on with my own eyes I've become skeptical of the value in official relationships and marriage.
I currently have children with a woman I like and I don't cheat or pursue other women.
When I watch social media I see videos on how men should act, dress, live, down to the right amount of eye contact to give women. It makes me glad I'm not involved in all that anymore.
I'm not innocent though, I've only calmed down after spending over a decade pursuing anything that moved on any kind of social website or app I could find.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 3:34 pm
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I guess that just never appealed to me, it was enough trouble chasing the few I actually wanted. I had a buddy who propositioned girls at random like a shotgun - I'm talking asking one if she wanted to fuck before he told her his name, and when she said no, turning to her friend standing right there "how about you?"..and it worked for him, but I could never see myself doing it. Never wanted to sleep with everything I saw and I definitely couldn't have handled the massive amount of rejection he just brushed right through in the process. I'm trying to think of the last time I even briefly saw something and wanted to step outside of the relationship I was in. I assume it must have have happened, but for the life of me I just can't remember it.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 3:45 pm
I used dating sites 11 years ago, when I had fresh walking papers. Though there were classmates who stepped up. It was an odd age to be on the prowl. Younger women, mid 40s, seemed to have more crazy than I was looking for. Older women, were more stable and kind but less interested in my outdoor lifestyle. I bailed on the sites after a few months, thinking I don't want to break a heart or get my tires slashed.
Philosophy take: Mill would agree.
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RE: Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men
December 22, 2022 at 4:22 pm
(December 22, 2022 at 3:02 pm)The Grand Nudger Wrote: Catholicism is a plot to manufacture extremely young and very fetishized women for barely repressed men. Change my mind. 
You know Billy Joel's line 'Catholic girls start much too late'? Yeah, that wasn't me regardless of the obligatory school uniform and knee socks.
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